Thursday, August 28, 2008
Safe words
Let me start by saying- I don't condone not having safe words. It is stupid and reckless. Now that I've stated that for the record: I don't have safe words with him. Not one. And now, I'm going to step over the ledge by saying: I don't need them. And if I had one, I wouldn't use it anyways. Critics may think this is dangerous, or even stupid- but I know many of the girls out there probably feel the same way I do. I think when you form that complete trust, when you are able to fully let go and put your entire well being into the hands of another- it is a special thing. He knows me and my body as well as I do. I have never told him to stop. I have never even been close to telling him to stop. A safe word wouldn't change that. I am driven to want, no- need to take everything he tosses at me. I want to please him. He has never let me down. Sometimes- he talks me through my pain, when he sees I'm hurting- and wants more. Sometimes- he may even stop before I truly want him to- but he has never abused the power I have given to him. He never will. How can I be so sure? Because I have never been as sure about anything in my life as I am him. And yeah, I'd risk my life on that.
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I agree with you. A safe word to me is like a safety net...ideally the tightrope walker will be well practiced enough not to need one.
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